Sounds like another instance of the "Tall Poppy Syndrome". Google it and you will realize what a sad part of the human condition it is. Just remember however trite, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger." Your friends are all that matter at a time like this and you ...
As it is likely there was at least one attorney on the EOC it is remarkable that you were not allowed to bring an attorney to a hearing where the potential penalties were so severe and the explanation of the charges was so convoluted.
Now we know how the North ...