Thanks, I mistyped the hand. Got it right now. as for transfer to minor, would be a problem for us since 3♣, in this sequence would mean preacceptence of the transfer, and another thing, what if we miss a 5-3 spade fit? (we open 1nt with 5 card majors).
Up till now I refrained from showing partner's hand, so that I would not influence the responses. I think it's time I showed his hand:
♠Q954 ♥T3 ♦A3 ♣AJ643
I am adding a question now, do you think he bid well or didn't bid well and why?
what I actually bid was 4♦, thinking my partner would understand I have less than 9 points (didnt bid a direct 3♦), more like 6-7 points, 6 diamonds (with 7 I'd bid 5♦ and with 5 cards I'd pass 3♥). after my 4♦ ...